Why Does the Law of Attraction Work So Well For Some and Not Others?
The key to creating a happy and successful life is learning how to work with the Law of Attraction to manifest your desires. This natural law states that what you think, feel, and believe is shaping your reality, which means that your mind is always in control of what is happening in your life!
So, why isn’t the Law of Attraction working for you?
Well, it probably is.
The Law of Attraction is a natural law that exists in the same way as gravity and the laws of motion: an unchanging part of the universe that dictates how things unfold.
If you visualize your desires while thinking positive thoughts and experiencing positive feelings, these desires will manifest naturally and effortlessly. On the other hand, focusing on the negativity will only attract more negative things into your life.
Whether people are aware of it or not, everyone is using the power of their minds to shape their lives. The Law of Attraction always gives you the same vibrations that you put out.
If your desires aren’t manifesting yet, don’t be discouraged, because it can take a little time and patience to master the right way to visualize and manifest your visions.
Here are a few reasons why you may be struggling with working with the Law of Attraction in manifesting abundance, love, and health in your life.
The Subconscious Working Against Your Desires
One of the major roadblocks in the manifestation of your desires is the presence of negative thoughts and feelings in your subconscious mind.
If you feel deep inside that you are unworthy, you will not attract the things you want.
What you can do: The process of releasing negative thoughts and emotions is different for everyone, but dealing with them is a significant part in turning your desires into reality.
Sometimes you only need to acknowledge the presence of negativity and shift your perspectives, while other time, you may need to use such tools as journaling, meditation, and positive affrirmations to turn your thoughts around.
One thing that has helped a lot of people build confidence is using positive affirmations. The daily repetition of affirmations that highlight your strengths, beauty, and worthiness can do wonders for boosting your confidence and self-love.
Once you believe yourself truly deserving of your desires, your positive thoughts and feelings will flow effortlessly into the universe and come back to you tenfold.
Focusing on What You Don’t Have, Rather Than What You’re Going to Have
Ask yourself, what are the thoughts and emotions behind your intentions?
Many people do not realize that the things they say they want is actually the effect of negative emotions, based in fear and not positive feelings. For example, dreaming of a car because you feel desperate and afraid because don’t have one, or desiring more money because they’re so scared of going broke.
If your desires and visualization are coming from a place of fear, this underlying negative emotion will only attract more things that make you fearful. Your constant fixation on the things you lack will only bring more lack into your life.
What you can do: When you visualize, it’s crucial to focus more on what you desire rather than what you do not have.
Focus on the excitement of purchasing a new automobile and imagine speeding on the highway with the radio blaring. Think about how you would feel if you come across a huge sum of money from a work bonus or a lottery ticket, instead of dreading the day that your savings dries up.
By focusing on the positive and sending out the right vibrational frequencies, the things you attract will be just as wonderful.
Losing Patience Over Time
Beginners often get disillusioned and stop working with the Law of Attraction when their greatest desires do not manifest within a week or so of visualization.
But disillusionment is counterproductive, since the less confident you are in getting what you want, the less of it will get back to you.
What you can do: To manifest what you want, it’s important to hold the vibrational frequency by visualizing your desire often, and keep imagining that you have already gotten your desires.
When you plant a seed, do you expect it to flourish overnight?
Some intentions are easy and quick to manifest, such as finding a good parking space on a crowded street. Others will take time to cultivate and manifest, like a profitable business or a wedding to a loving partner.
It’s also important to recognize that just because your desires haven’t completely manifested in reality yet, that doesn’t mean the universe hasn’t already began lining things up for it to manifest in your life. Keep an eye out because today you are closer to receiving your desire today than you were yesterday.
Some signs that the Law of Attraction is already working with you include increased intuition, more vivid dreams, seeing rainbows, and an abundance in finances.
Remember: The universe works on its timeframes, not ours!
Doubting the Law of Attraction
Skepticism is also known to prevent people from having success with the Law of Attraction. The LOA is based upon the concept of like attracting like, so nurturing doubt in your mind will only attract more doubt to you.
What you can do: There are two surefire ways to ease your doubts about this natural law.
One is by learning more about the Law of Attraction through personal stories of other, which are readily available in my Facebook group The Law Of Attraction Made Easy.
Also, increasing your knowledge on this subject will not only strengthen your confidence as you work with this law, but will also make you more informed on the right way to think, feel, and believe more positively.
The second way to be more certain you are living with the Law of Attraction is by practicing it every day. Start small by visualizing a good parking spot or a $10 bill in one of your jean pockets.
Success in manifesting these smaller things will build your confidence that it works, and at the same time, pave the way for you to work with the Law of Attraction to attract your bigger desires.